5 min
Tonight's card, made for your region.
Open The Map in the evening and it is already there. Press Done when you have done it, then write one line about how it went.
For couples, situationships and everyone in between
Your dot lands in one of four regions. Then every evening, one five-minute card to get closer: do it, write a line, watch your dot move.
About three minutes · four regions, none of them wrong · pay once · people mapped
Tonight's card · The Lookout
Send them one line about something they did this week that you noticed.
18quick taps to place your dot
4regions, none of them wrong
5 mina night, one card
Sundaya re-map shows your dot moving
Sound familiar?
They go quiet for a few hours and you reread your last messages.
After an argument you replay it for the rest of the night.
When things feel good, part of you waits for it to go wrong.
You hint at what you need and hope they notice.
Each one makes sense on its own. Together they build distance with someone you want close. The Map shows you where that pattern sits, then gives you one small thing a night to change it.
Every night, one thing worth doing.
Not advice to read. Something to do tonight, with them or about them, picked for where you are on the map.
Your dot moves
Every Sunday, four quick taps re-place your dot. Its trail shows where you are heading.
Two on one map
Send tonight's card to them. When they join, both dots sit on one map. Never your answers.
1
Find where you stand
Answer about how you love: when they go quiet, after an argument, when it is good. Your dot lands in one of four regions.
2
Get your nightly plan
Your plan starts from your region and the person you are thinking of. One card tonight, one tomorrow.
3
Watch the distance close
A line after each card, a re-map each Sunday. You see the change on the map, week by week.
Four regions. None of them wrong.
Two directions decide where your dot lands: how close you like to be, and how much you worry when someone goes quiet.
Home Ground
You tend to feel comfortable getting close and you don't spiral when things go quiet.
The Lookout
You care a lot and you notice every shift. Closeness matters, and so does knowing where you stand.
Open Water
You like your own space and you're steady on your own. Distance doesn't bother you.
The Fog
You want connection and feel unsure about it at the same time. It can be hard to tell what you need.
Example week · The Lookout
Three nights of cards
These are real cards from The Lookout's plan. Each takes about five minutes. After it, you write one line about how it went.
- Night 1Send them one line about something they did this week that you noticed.
- Night 2When you next wait for a reply, write down the kindest reason it might be late. Read it back once it comes.
- Night 3Tell them one thing that helps you feel steady with them. Keep it to one sentence.
The Map vs another personality quiz
| The Map | A quiz | |
|---|---|---|
| What you get | Where you stand, then one thing to do tonight. | A label. |
| Tomorrow | A new card, picked for your region. | Nothing. |
| Shows change | Your dot re-mapped every Sunday, with its trail. | Take it again and hope. |
| With your person | Two dots on one map. Never your answers. | Screenshot it. |
| How long | 18 taps about one person. | Dozens of sliders about your mother, your father and your ex. |
| What it costs | Pay once. No renewal. | A yearly subscription, or a report you pay for again next time. |
Our promise
Your answers and your journal stay yours. Your person only ever sees your dot. And you pay once, never weekly.
Your nightly plan is ready.
- Tonight's card, every evening. One five-minute thing to do with them, or about them, picked for your region.
- Your journal. Every card you did and the one line you wrote after it.
- A Sunday re-map. Four taps, and your dot's trail shows where you are heading.
- Two on one map, one payment. Invite your person and they get in on yours; both dots share one map, and neither of you ever sees the other's answers.
- The full card library for all four regions.
- TonightYour first card is waiting.
- Day 14Last day for a no-questions refund.
- NeverA weekly charge.
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Can I cancel?
Pay once and there is nothing to cancel. Monthly stops whenever you like, in a tap.
Does it work on my phone?
It opens in any phone browser. Nothing to install, no app store.
What if it is not for me?
Tell us within 14 days and we refund it, no questions asked.
Will you email me a lot?
Only about your account. Your nightly card lives in the app, not your inbox.
Before you start.
Short answers to what people ask first.
What is The Map?
The Map is a website that shows where you actually stand with one specific person — a partner, a situationship, a close friend — from eighteen quick taps. It puts your dot in one of four regions, named for how close you get and how much you worry, and none of them is the wrong one to be in. From then on it gives you one small thing to do together each night, picked for your region. Your answers and your journal stay yours; the other person only ever sees the dot.
I'm not in a relationship. Does it work?
Yes. You choose who you are thinking of: a partner, a situationship, a close friend, or how you imagine it. The cards follow that.
Does my person see my answers?
Never. With Two on one map they see your region and dot on the map, once they join. Your answers and your journal stay yours.
What if they never join?
Most cards work on your side alone. Two on one map is there if they want it; nothing waits on them.
